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Curved Bamboo

Curved_bambooA bamboo tree was bent down from the weight of the snow on it. Don't you think this is symbolic of something important?  I feel like this is pointing us to  something instructive, moralistic, metaphorical, and ironic. Just like what some Chinese wise man said. But ...I can't recall what is it. Let me think.

There is a Japanese saying: "Willow branches can never be broken" (YANAGI NI EDA-ORE NASHI). Willow branches are always hanging down to the ground and not firm. So they don't seem to be strong. But even if the heavy snow piled on them, they are only bent down and hardly broken. This saying means that the real strength is a flexibility. It's very close but I think there must be something else more suitable for this curved bamboo.

Speaking of Japanese saying, there is an interesting story. There is a saying: "Kindness is not for helping others". Many people believe the meaning of this saying as that "being kind to a person is not necessarily beneficial to him/her because we should solve our problem by ourselves."  But its actual meaning is: "If we are kind to others, we will get kindness back. So we should be kind for ourselves." The real meaning is more selfish than the common belief. It is off topic from the bamboo though.

I show you another funny Japanese expression. We sometimes call the front zipper of the pants as "social window" (SHAKAI NO MADO). As you are guessing, we say like this because the zipper is the border of the public/society and our very 'private' area.
Since my head was filled with that bamboo, I forgot to zip up my pants in the whole of today. So I had walked around outside keeping my social window widely opened. While I went to the bank, supermarket, drugstore, and video shop, my window was unlocked to everyone in the society. But I did not intend to offend by such an antisocial act. What a shame...

Hey, finally I figured out the meaning of the bamboo! It had warned me to "look down".

March 5, 2005 in Daily Life | Permalink

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There is a fable by Jean dela Fontaine called The Oak and the Reed that relates to your bamboo. The oak brags to the reed about how strong he is and pities the reed because he cannot even hold a bird without bending and must yield to every breeze. A big storm comes along, the oak is uprooted but the reed, who bent before the wind, rises up once the storm is passed, unharmed. And I think that a principle of tai chi is that you yield to a blow and somehow use that momentum for your strike...but I'm a little foggy on that, I could be wrong.

Posted by: Jen | Mar 5, 2005 6:16:40 PM

Excelent, as usual. Very funny and instructive.

Posted by: zen-utrio | Mar 6, 2005 5:31:32 AM

You have bamboo in your town? I'm so jealous ... being that 行田 means "path through rice fields," all my town has is, well ... rice fields ... and paths.

Which is better, do you think?

Japan - Walking around all day with your social window open and no one telling you (but many noticing)?

U.S. - Walking around for most of the morning wondering why people are looking at you funny, and finally a complete stranger tells you, loudly, in public, that your fly is down?

Posted by: Justin | Mar 6, 2005 4:40:48 PM

The saying about bamboo further demonstrates how conformity is valued in Japan.

Posted by: akijikan | Mar 8, 2005 12:03:37 PM

didn't know that a bamboo bending down can bring so much meaning.

Posted by: mrkiasu | Mar 9, 2005 12:45:19 AM

hehe the expression 社会の窓,i didn't know it!Funny!

Posted by: Simon | Mar 10, 2005 10:17:26 AM

Wow what a great blog you have! I plan to visit often.

Posted by: Karimah | Mar 12, 2005 9:03:26 PM

Another great post. Your blog is so rare - to see a blog by a Japanese person in English. I love the different pespective you get of Japan from here. Keep it up :)

Posted by: quaisi | Mar 14, 2005 12:00:41 AM

Oh man I thought I replied this yesterday but thought it was posted after clicking 'post' and didn't see the number verification thingie ...

Well I said sth like: Here in Belgium the chinese saying is quite well-known. We say something along the lines of : An old chinese man once said: "We are like the bamboo in the wind, we bow, but we never break."

It refers to the habit of bowing, which seemed almost humiliating or degrading in western eyes. So probably in the early connections between China and Europe, Europeans found that 'all those funny yellow people must admit we're superior because they always bow to us!' and some old geezer would've said in reply this saying..

(Just my subjective knowledge maybe the etimology is entirely different)

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